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mbx766

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在有生之年看见楼主的这个帖子。
我竟感发生出一种
无以名之的悲痛感――啊,
看完楼
主的这个帖子之后,
实在是我三生之幸啊。
 

addelaygm

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2012-06-08
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  人们都说“爱是无私的”。对于这句话,我感觉我在二十岁左右的时候理解的很透彻,因为它是说到我的心坎里去了。但三十出头的今天,对这句话我却有了另一番感悟。
  
  热恋时,每天为他高兴而高兴,为他难过而难过,甚至为他一句无心的话伤心不已,为他的一个眼神欣喜若狂。心甘情愿地为他做一切自己所能做的,上刀山下火海也就是他一句话的事。
  
  试问这种爱是无私的吗?现在想来其实不然。之所以称为无私,那就意味着不求回报。那么自己所做的这一切真的不求回报吗?不,至少要的是他爱我。
  
  如果他不爱我,那么自己所做的这一切就毫无意义。我相信做这样一件毫无意义的事情对于每一个人来说都是很痛苦的,无论坚持时间长短,最后只有放弃。这种爱不长久。
  
  如果他爱我,那么他就一定会有所表现来让我感觉到他的爱。比如对我倍加的呵护,做我喜欢的事,保护我。这样我爱他,他爱我,这种有回报的爱才能让我们走的更长久。
  
  当两个人走进婚姻,如火的恋情慢慢冷却。工作和家庭的琐事代替了曾经的一切。两个人有时竟然似乎连看对方一眼的时间都有没有,爱似乎已经不复存在。其实不然,这个时候的爱只是换了一种表达方式。
  
  在他累了的时候帮他沏一杯热茶;在他病了的时候给他无微不至的照顾;在他工作不顺心的时候给他真诚的宽慰。尽量地多照顾双方的父母和孩子,让他可以全心全意地在事业上打拼。也许他不再能听到当初的甜言蜜语,但他一定能感觉到一种关怀,只有深爱着他的人才能给予他的关怀。
  
  那么这种爱是无私,不求回报的吗?当然不是。
  
  他至少应该在这个家需要他的时候挺身而出,让我也能感觉到深爱我的人给我的关怀。哪怕只是在孩子生病时一个安慰的电话,或是在我生日时一份不起眼的礼物,亦或是在我乱发脾气时对我的包容。
  
  我深思,到底什么样的爱才是无私的呢?我想到了很多:
  
  姥爷从六十多岁中风后,一直行动不便,时常大小便失禁。姥姥从来没有嫌弃过,一直对姥爷照顾的无微不至。这样的姥爷除了给姥姥带来很多麻烦外,几乎不能再给她什么。这样的爱应该算是无私的爱了吧。但在姥爷去世后,姥姥常痛哭流涕地说:“这么多年照顾他,我就是要他活着,要他陪着我。”这充分说明姥姥的付出也是要回报的。因为姥爷的离去,使姥姥的爱变成了一种缺憾。
  
  那么父母对儿女的爱应该算得上是无私的了吧!但中国的一句古话就可以充分说明问题,“养儿防老”。其实父母生育儿女时的初衷未必是防老,但真的到了人入老年后,就会深切地体会到因为有了儿女,自己才能坐享天伦之乐;因为有了儿女,lunettes louis vuitton,自己才能有人衷心地体贴照顾;因为有了儿女,自己才充满了希望,louis vuitton pas cher。这就是自己对儿女多年付出想要得到的回报。
  
  还有很多,比如无偿献血的人想要的回报就是自己的鲜血能救活生命垂危的人;捐赠款物的人想要的回报就是需要帮助的人得到自己的帮助等等。
  
  想来想去,“爱是无私的”这句话有问题的并不是爱,因为爱本身就是一件很美好的事,里面就不会有任何不好的因素存在。有问题的是无私二字。试想爱如果真的那么无私,不需要任何回报的话,那么你就会永远爱着不爱你的人,你就永远得不到爱人的关怀,所有的老人都会孤独而终,献出的鲜血和捐赠的款物就永无用武之地,爱就会变成一种缺憾。
  
  所以我想,爱还是有私点的好。只有需要回报的爱才能得到回报,而得到回报的爱才是最完美的爱!
  
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the 39-year-old female boss broke up because of dissatisfaction with the detention of 27 hours of the 22-year-old gay man
a 39-year-old woman is hard work alone with his son in chengdu, a cell phone store the age of 22 young female clerk, a casual encounter, triggering the emotional entanglements of a "gay love" to break up because of dissatisfaction with the text green "former lover" li meijiang line detention of 27 hours, this crazy behavior is not only completely ruined the feelings of the two, also sent to the cell. face 10 months imprisonment, the court, wen qing, the most difficult to face is the damage caused by the fault of their own to the young as 7 years old son. "i am gay, i want to pursue your 39-year-old wen qing is an independent and capable woman, alone, to do business in chengdu, long-term and work in malcolms husband have been dispersed. after years of hard work, wen qing also had on a car and house, a stable moisture easy life. who could have predicted that life encounters? by chance, than the green man 17 year old young girl li mei broke into her life. wen qing li mei to bring their own "sweet romance" experience, and did not think his otherwise normal life in the future toward therefore be reversed. "i was very moved by her commitment that i will take care of me and my son a lifetime." thinking back to the first reason why together with li mei, wen qing sadly say such a word. one day in july 2010, wen qing taisheng south road, chengdu a mobile phone shop to buy mobile phones, and understanding of the clerk li mei. the two contact ever since, occasionally together to eat dinner chat, the relationship gradually became close up. soon, wen qing was sick in hospital, li mei is a day to deliver meals to the hospital to give her better according to gu wenqing, li mei simply go to the hospital to buy the accompanying bedspace, day and night waiting at the side of the green man all of this, the green moved very "im gay, i love you, i want to pursue you." those days in the hospital, li mei, her confession and promised to her, promised to take care of her and her son a lifetime. in this way, the green recognized li mei and her gay relationship, they began to "love" and living together. love the easy to get along too difficult "in the one-year exchanges, wen qing often because of the little things i cursed, and often doubt my love relationship with other people of the same sex." said li mei, the most she could not accept is that the green man, or even suspect that li mei and their relatives have a "bad" relationship. li mei is ultimately to the green text to break. li mei and wen qing, began living together in october 2010. beginning together, she and wen qing and her son get along very well, but the day is long, wen qing suspicious irritability, and they often quarreled, resulting in two emotional damage directly caused by rupture. september 10 the following year, li mei xiangwen green break off the relationship after they returned to the jianyang home to work in a mobile phone shop. three months later, wen qing called the phone,christian louboutin shoes, li mei to his son to buy a repeater, and that she wanted to take care of their children get away, let li mei repeater sent to chengdu. assault detention of former lovers, december 24, 2011 12 am, and li meiti with cake and video machines to the home of wen qing. after lunch, together with wen qings son to play exquisite beauty, about 4 pm, the trio returned home. "i dare not call for help, afraid she beat me genghen wen qing and threatened me not allowed to leave her, or threaten my family." said li mei, no sooner arrived home shortly, there will be two men and a woman came to the text green home, entered the room on her violence. after kicking, the two men and a woman with a rope, li meis hands, feet, bundled onto the study. "xiao you do not know why they might tie you, because you usually do not listen often to run." the green into the study, began to scold li mei. "do i still love you ......" li mei has continued to beg for mercy to the green man. see li mei to admit wen qing, some soft-hearted can be that moment,christian louboutin, li mei phone received a text message. sms is sent by a man named juan, the general content and asked li mei is safe. look at li mei-phone text messages, most of her dialogue with juan, of which a large number of snubbed text green text. see these, wen qing, furious, she kept pummeling li meis face and hit her two bruised, swollen face. a tired, cursing, wen qing untied the rope, so that li mei with her to the bedroom to sleep. 8 oclock the next morning, to wake up time the son of wen qing, wen qing did not want to let their kids see the badly injured li mei, he called her friends with li mei went to the hotel to rest, but because there is no room hotel, li mei was brought back to the home of wen qing. 25, 18 am, take advantage of green paper to his son to pack their schoolbags, li mei escape from her home. the next day, li mei,chaussures pas cher, accompanied by his family down to the qingyang district branch cottage police station. unable to face the 7-year-old sons court, culture, youth and victims of li mei in dispute because of emotional problems, and illegal detention of the victim after, together with others, deprived of personal freedom, wen qing acts constitute the crime of illegal detention. in accordance with the relevant provisions of chinas criminal law, culture and youth guilty of the crime of illegal detention, taking into account her guilty plea with a good attitude, and the young children in need of care, in particular, where appropriate, a lighter punishment, and sentenced him to prison for 10 months. "my dad gastric cancer, mother urinary calculi hospitalization, her husband work in malcolm, my son was 7 years old i was alone to take care of." the face of the verdict, broke down in tears, culture and youth, she told the judge, the seven-year-old son in elementary school in chengdu a year, usually one to take care of his sons life. "i am from the barkam out of any relatives in chengdu, i go to jail, no one to care for their children ..." wen qing difficult to face their own negligence to the damage caused by children as young as 7 years old. (text characters are in a pseudonym) legal aspect of illegal detention is a serious deprivation of the freedom of bodily behavior. according to the relevant provisions of the criminal law, illegal detention of another person or by other unlawful means of deprivation of personal freedom, and three years imprisonment, criminal detention, public surveillance or deprivation of political rights. serious bodily injury, shall be punished severely. therefore, wen qing kicking on li mei, limit each others actions, even if time is not long, but in fact, already constitute the crime of illegal detention. things, all things should be two benefit options, whichever is heavy, two disadvantages of the lesser. case in which the hero wen qing is a mature woman, a successful career on impulse because of emotional problems, had dizzy brain, across the boundaries of the law, made a rude awakening thing. this case to warn those who love people, mature treatment of the feelings an how important things, violated the law will be subject to sanctions. feelings to the point of irreparable, than sensibly let go of each others hands, love a way out and let it go. (online sichuan - sichuan legal news)
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